Saturday, January 4, 2014

Why Is Spending Time With Your Family Important?


When was the last time you had a family night? Or when was the last time you had a descent talk with your parents or children. Was it last weak or last month or maybe last year. Here let me ask you a better question When was the last time you told your mom, dad, sister, brother or children I love you.Take your time and just think about that question. Did you know that saying i love you or just giving them a hug can make a difrence. I don't know if you have ever thought of this but a lot of the time the love you don't show  your kids they will try to find by talking to guys or girls. See they will start thinking this "if my parents don't really have time for me or love me I'll just find a guy or girl to give me their love and time". 98.9% of middle school students and high school students don't have a strong relationship with they're parents. Which can be the causes of
-suicide
-bad behavior 
-drug use
-early pregnancy
-and more
Why not receiving enogh love from your parents can cause these? 
Suicide- because when children, teens and adults feel like their parents don't have enough time for them, or when they think that their parents don't live them the feel alone, misunderstood and hurt. And what does that cause deppression and where does depression lead you to? To thoughts of suicide.
Bad behavior- when you see teens destroying property or doing things they shouldn't its because they want to be noticed and since they aren't being noticed by their parents they will try to do much to be noticed by somebody that can give them they're attention.
Drug Use- by using drugs weather it's marihuana or cocain you become high. And why is it that someone would want to be high. To forget about the world for a sec and if you don't have allot of love from the right person then they think that getting high will help them.
Early Pregnancy- some girls from the ages to 15 and 18 think that love means getting laid  but does it really mean that. No, but they don't know that cause most if them have never have gotten true love from a parent. 
How can you make a change in your household?
Spent time with your family that's the main key. You don't have to go all out and go to Olive Garden but you can try taking a walk with your family in your community. Or play a board game. I cant stress it enought but Find time.  
Interesting fact!!
90% of family's now a days do not sit in the table as a family to eat breakfast or dinner. 


Dear readers,
    I myself came out with this passage I did not copy nobody. These are my own thought. 
                                                                  P.s Madeline

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