Wednesday, January 8, 2014

Put Your electronics down!

                                             
Hey you! Yea You! How many times have you looked at your phone or your ipad today. And how long did it take to look through your IPhone/IPad. Does it take you 5~6 minutes to look though it or maybe even more time. Well i want to do a little experiment on how much time you waste a day with your electronic. So lets say that every morning when you wake up you spend a total of 10 minutes in your electronic. And you also looked through your electronic 5 more times from  8am to 12pm and in those 5 times you looked through your electronic you wasted 4 min for every one time How much is that? 25mn in your electronic plus the time when you woke up. So that's a total of 35 min only in the morning. now what about the afternoon and at night. Now im not going to calculate all that cause this isn't math class but i just want to give you guys a little estimate on how many hours you guys waste a day with your electronics. .Ok since im not gonna calculate everything then lets just say that you waste a total of 2 to 3 hours a day in your electronics. Now how many hours do you have in a day? 24 Right! BUT if you take out 3 hours from 24 its 21 right? then subtract how many hours you sleep. Ok i sleep for 8 hours. Then if you take 8 hours from 21 its gona be 13 Right? And what about your meals. Well lets put that it takes us 15mn to eat our meals which are breakfast, lunch and dinner. Thats about 50mn Right? Plus 2 snack breaks which are both 5 min. That creates a total hour Right? Now we have 12 hours left Right? Now the question is WHAT DO YOU DO IN THOSE 12 HOURS YOU HAVE LEFT?? But did you know that you can change that. You can add more time to your day by putting your electronics down weather its your phone, ipad, laptop or all of the stuff that you waste your time on. Think of all of the other important stuff that you can do with more time. weather its volunteering to help others in need or spending more time with your family. So before you pick your electronics up again please think to yourself and ask yourself this question. IS IT WORTH IT?!?

Sunday, January 5, 2014

My opinion on bullying

     
                    
                       
Have you ever been bullied? Well I have and it did not feel good what so ever. The aweful feeling of not fitting in, and the feeling of being laughed at hurt a lot. Let me share with you my story/experience on being bullied. Well the first time that I remembered getting bullied was in my elementary school. Well we were watching the movie The Incredibles and you know the scene that the mom was driving the plane and the kids did not have their seat belts so they began floating everywhere in the plain. well I thought that that scene was funny so I started laughing and while I was laughing I had gas YES gas but not the gas from burping. So I sorta farted during the movie but it was an accident so then every kid in the class room started laughing at me. But that's not it they laughed at me from throwing. A gas throughout the whole year they would call me names and it just wasn't the same nomore, after that happend I hated school. Now here I am in middle school hoping to start over praying that these 4 years turn out great. But instead it turns out worst this time they aren't making fun of an accident I did they're making fun of my vision and the way my eyes move and since I'm shy they think it's been more funner cause they know how I wouldn't stick up for myself. So I talk to my teacher and tell her and then she tells me this "when ever they laugh at you again just start laughing with them too" but what she didnt realize is that it's not that easy especially for a shy girl like me. So then after getting laughed at throughout middle school and elementary school here comes high school and now I'm thinking to myself "Great! Now I'm in high school let's see how this can get any better". Here comes freshman year I'm in gym class now everyone starts staring at me. Then I go off to reading class very one starts teasing me cause I'm always so close to the board and to my assignments then I'm in math class. Now math class was very difficult for me cause again I was very shy and I didn't get anything about algebra so I never rose my hand in class and I never asked the teacher for help cause I was shy and scared that somebody might tease me cause if the way I talked. So I failed algebra. Now my sophomore year was one of the craziest years cause this was the first year that I have ever skipped class. YES! I skipped class but a lot of people didn't understand why cause I was such a good student I never got in trouble or never disobeyed the teacher. You may ask yourselfs "I wonder why she did that"  but the reason why I skipped class was cause of being bullied and laughed at a lot I hated it I couldn't take it anymore. And also I didn't write this out earlier but every single day or atleast a lot of the time I would beg my mom not to take me to school and if she did I would try to act sick to go to the nurse and leave school. Back to the subject so I was skipping 4th period and my teacher found out so she told the dean and tgen I got in trouble and the cops came in and everything. And they wanted me to get counseling when really I was just misunderstood. And soon after this happend I did the craziest thing that I have ever done which I'm so scared to write right now. But here I go ok well I started cutting. YES!! I know it sound crazy and stupid but I just wanted to hurt myself cages I was always si shy to do anything I just hated myself at that time. I'm not gonna tell you exactly what my parents did to find out cause that would be emberasing lol but I know that they loved me a lot and they just wanted me to understand they're pihnt if view. So after my cr sophomore year passed I entered  my two favorate school years so far which was my junior and senior year. Btw those two years where the only school years so far that I have not gotten bullied on cause I have gained so many amazing friends. And then I graduated and let me tell you something when I did graduated I finally noticed how strong I was. I went through so much and I finally made it to my graduation it was one if the best feelings ever. So I know how it feels!! Alone. Made fun off. Hurt. Misunderstood and this sounds crazy but I know how it feels to eat lunch in the bathroom EVERY SINGLE DAY for a full year cause I hated being laughed at during lunch too. So I know!! I know!! That's why I wonna help.cause I've been there. I've been in your shoes. 
                                                 My opinion on bullying 
I want bullying to stop weather it's in our schools, social networks or wherever. I know how it feels and I don't want any other innocent kid to go through what I went through I really don't. Btw bullying is mainly the leading cause of suicide and depression in teens. So make a difrence wheat her it's a little club in your school or defend the  victim being bullied. MAKE A CHANGE!!  

                                                      STAY STRONG!!
 Stay strong and never give up. What ever your going through it doesn't even have to relate with bullying just stay strong. Keep your head up beautiful and be brave!!!!!!!!!

Saturday, January 4, 2014

Why Is Spending Time With Your Family Important?


When was the last time you had a family night? Or when was the last time you had a descent talk with your parents or children. Was it last weak or last month or maybe last year. Here let me ask you a better question When was the last time you told your mom, dad, sister, brother or children I love you.Take your time and just think about that question. Did you know that saying i love you or just giving them a hug can make a difrence. I don't know if you have ever thought of this but a lot of the time the love you don't show  your kids they will try to find by talking to guys or girls. See they will start thinking this "if my parents don't really have time for me or love me I'll just find a guy or girl to give me their love and time". 98.9% of middle school students and high school students don't have a strong relationship with they're parents. Which can be the causes of
-suicide
-bad behavior 
-drug use
-early pregnancy
-and more
Why not receiving enogh love from your parents can cause these? 
Suicide- because when children, teens and adults feel like their parents don't have enough time for them, or when they think that their parents don't live them the feel alone, misunderstood and hurt. And what does that cause deppression and where does depression lead you to? To thoughts of suicide.
Bad behavior- when you see teens destroying property or doing things they shouldn't its because they want to be noticed and since they aren't being noticed by their parents they will try to do much to be noticed by somebody that can give them they're attention.
Drug Use- by using drugs weather it's marihuana or cocain you become high. And why is it that someone would want to be high. To forget about the world for a sec and if you don't have allot of love from the right person then they think that getting high will help them.
Early Pregnancy- some girls from the ages to 15 and 18 think that love means getting laid  but does it really mean that. No, but they don't know that cause most if them have never have gotten true love from a parent. 
How can you make a change in your household?
Spent time with your family that's the main key. You don't have to go all out and go to Olive Garden but you can try taking a walk with your family in your community. Or play a board game. I cant stress it enought but Find time.  
Interesting fact!!
90% of family's now a days do not sit in the table as a family to eat breakfast or dinner. 


Dear readers,
    I myself came out with this passage I did not copy nobody. These are my own thought. 
                                                                  P.s Madeline

Friday, January 3, 2014

What Is worldly Music bringing To Our Minds?

                          
  

Hello again I would like to talk tou you today about music. Now I would like to ask you a question What kind of music do you listen to? Now ask yourself how is this making me a better person?  Do you listen to TobyMac or to maybe OneRepublic or even both. Now before you jump to conclusions don't assume that I'm writing this blog to force you to stop listening to worldly music. I'm just here to prove my point which is What Is worldly Music bringing To Our Minds? What does it bring to our minds? Does it bring positive thoughts maybe about the word of God or how great God is? Does it? Or does it bring thought of smoking, drinking, sex, death or fame. Take a moment and ask yourselfs How did the last song I heard inspire me? Did it inspire me to read the bible? Or to help others or to give thanks to God for everything? Now listen carefully I myself am not perfect most of the times I do get tempted to listen to worldly music. I go to pandora start listening to TobyMac or Jesus Culture then I hit the search botton and think to my self "Hmmmm I need something more, like I need an up beat song O'yea let's try Today's Hits" and that's when I get caught of guard then three hours later I think to myself and ask myself "why did I listen to that I feel so guilty cause I know I'm not doing what you put me to do God"  and that's why I wonna talk yo you guys about Is it really worth it to listen to Worldy music How does it benifit you? I'm not trying to force you to stop listening to that type of music again like I said earlier Just becarefulll to what you listen to. There are so many christian artist weather you like rap ( Lacrae, Flame, tadashii, kb, adrew minero and so much more) pop ( britt nicole, TobyMac, Group1Crew PressPlay and Aton more) or even rock (Fireflight, barlowGirl, flyleaf, skillet, switch foot and etc). Well thank you guys so much for reading this blog I have  more blogs so go check them out,  NOT EVERY SONG FROM A NON CHRISTIAN SINGER IS EVIL/BAD just be wise to what you listen too. Like some bad examples are Miley Cyrus cause most of the time she talks about drinking and parting and drugs or lil Wayne. Now I'm not racist to rap music I do love rap music but the type I like has powerful positive messages. Choose wisely and may God bless you guys. 

What are you doing right now?

Can I ask you a question? What are you doing right now as you read this? Are you accomplishing your Goals or are you just waiting for a miracle. See what i have been doing is waiting for a miracle to occur weather it's someone calling me saying your in our fashion designing business. Or someone hiring me but obiesly no one hires anyone without an application or an interview. So there I am just waiting and waiting and waiting until I noticed that all I'm doing is just sitting doing nothing. Until I noticed that sitting isn't going to get me nowhere so that's when I finally had the guts to get up and say let me start applying for jobs and let me start working on my fashion designing portfolio and let me start writting and let me start working to get my bumb out of the chair. And know I'm going step by step to what I would love to accomplish weather it's becoming a fashion designer or writting blogs to inspire girls and guys like me.
So What Are You Doing today? Don't get dismotivated but only motivated. Write this question in a journal and under the question write what you are doing. Then open it up again next year and look through it and check if you have pushed yourself one step closer to your goals in life. But remember the key to improving is by motivatin yourself everyday. You have power to become whom ever you want it's all in your head. Just like me you can get up and say "ENOUGH IS ENOUGH".

Thursday, January 2, 2014

Instoducing me

Hello, my name is Madeline but you can call me maddy. Well this is my first blog so let me tell you more about 
 The reason why I am inspired to write blogs is to inspire people. You may ask your selfs "How is she gonna inspire me". And now I'm going to answer your question. I go through tons of obstacles a day weather it's my vision or my health. Oh sorry I forgot to mention that I'm blind from one And I'm also diagnosed with nerve hypoplatia which causes my eye movements and the fogginess in my right eye also I only see from me right eye 20/200. But that's not it I also am diagnosed with 8 other health problems weather it's my thyroid or hormone deficiency. And to add to the list I have anxiety which makes it even better. But besides all of my obstacles I face I will stand tall. And I want you guys to stand tall too weather you have anxiety or cancer or diabetes or are blind. I want to write to inspire. I want to make you feel like I'm there with you cause I am. Thank you guys for reading my first blog and remember stay strong. Talk to you guys tomorrow and I will tell you guys  more about myself tomorrow . ¡stay tuned!